In order to receive, you must learn to give and give thanks. Nothing happens just like that, out of nowhere It doesn't matter whether you are a man or a woman, it doesn't matter your age, it doesn't matter your position in society, it doesn't even matter what you want. Whatever we want, absolutely everything has to be paid for. It's not always money. Usually it's time, it's emotions, it's reciprocity. Sometimes we think that we get something as a gift, but we pay for the gift too, it is just that everything has a different price